Sometimes we need to stand up for the truth despite the opposition. But sometimes love is more important. Sometimes whether we are right or wrong isn't as important as respecting the other individual where they are at. We might have the better solution, we might know a holier path, we might have been gifted with some wisdom which the other person could benefit from. Yet if that person isn't ready to hear what we have to say, our approach might be just as disrespectful as grabbing a person from behind and moving them forcefully to a new location. They might experience our efforts to help as being as disrespectful as that of a child treating a baby sister like a doll rather than another human being.