You may be struggling with difficulties every bit as challenging as what this paralyzed man faced. Life would be much more enjoyable if physical ailments were healed, yet Jesus doesn't seem to care. So spend a few moments each day asking Him what He thinks your most pressing needs are. Perhaps there's an unforgiven (unrepented) sin which He considers more important for your overall health. Also spend a few moments recognizing the support which you do have (Not the support you wish for and don't have! Be honest and grateful, regardless of how little you think it is!) and a few moments praying for those even worse off than yourself.